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Monday, August 19, 2013

Evolve: A Single Mother's Bond

A Single Mother's Bond
By: Nadia Sweeting


Today, I want to show much love to all the single mother,s and fathers for the most part,who somehow lost their way in life. I can honestly admit that I'm lost most often than others, but I can admit that I am aware of it. I came across this video clip -Life lesson for single mothers -  I often feel guilty for not being able to do more for my daughter. Nights of heartaches and disappointments are regular, but like so many other single parents, we must continue on the fight and make it happen. 


A Single Mom's Lightbulb Moment - Oprah's Lifeclass - Oprah Winfrey 

One day, while watching a few videos on Oprah's Life class YouTube channel, I came across this  video clip - "A Single Mom's Light bulb Moment. This video stood out to me because I recognized this woman Erica Ship...Ms.Ship is ME! I put others before me all the while neglect needs and wants. I've lived in the shadows of others - never wanting to make a fuss and when the time came for others to help me- they abandoned me or simply marked the  "Do Not Apply" box.

Financially, I will admit that I struggle- with being able to provide with little assistance. I struggle with insuring both myself and my child. It hurts my heart to hear my daughter tell me "mommy, it will be ok."  Suze Orman stated that "it doesn't matter that daddy left us, but that mommy has what it takes to make it happen." I completely understand and feel her pain. Currently, I reside with my parents and it pains me to raise my child while living in my parents house- unable to afford an apartment. As Suze Orman said, in order to help my daughter, I will put on the "Financial Oxygen Mask" first, then my daughter.  



I am blessed...no complaints


Today is the first day of school for most kids across the United States and I can honestly say this single mother is extremely proud of her child. My daughter entered the 8th grade with full determination that she will do better than last year - Honor Student!  I've instilled in my daughter that hard work pays off. My daughter understands how hard I work in order for her to have. My daughter's obligations are to excel in school and be cordial and respectful to others I manage to run two businesses, Nadashi Marketing and WedTin, with my sister. My daughter see my effort and determination  to make things happen. 

By no means do I want my daughter to feel the financial struggles. Single parents, we are the strongest people walking your respective cities and countries. I respect all single parents near and far. We hold a special bond with each other -- joined by love and strength.

 I know I am just rambling -- these are things on my heart! 

                        I am blessed...no complaints





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