Hola Chicas and Chicos!
Today was a bad day...I thank god for it. I thank god for allowing me to experience the good and bad days that life has to offer.
Today, I've experienced a sense and thought of...Enough is Enough. I'm a nice person...so nice that people tend to take advantage of me in various ways. People assume that I will do what they want, say what they want me to say or go along with what they have going on. No longer will I allow that to take place.
Being nice doesn't mean that you'r naive or absent-minded. Being nice is who I am. I help others because I want to. Being nice makes me Nadia. Everyone that knows me, knows that I'm a nice person. There are some people who know that you're nice and aim to exploit you.
Bieng nice in a relationship could work at time, but there are times where it could back fire. For me, being nice in a relationship has always lead me to disappointment. Men tend to take advantage of my calm and/or passive nature. I'm very nice and men know that. "Let's see how far I can get away with" is most men mantra.
Well today, I'm over it...I'm over people/men taking advantage of my niceness. I'm no longer standing on the side like a mistress!!! I am taking my life back and with God's guidance, plan to live and do things that make me happy. Being told to be patient, and hold on are not good enough for me anymore. I will continue to be nice, but will hold my own when I see that others are taking advantage of me. I will adopt a new word in my vocabulary....NO.
I plan to take my life back from the joy stealers and dream killers. I pray to god that my life is fulfilled with great expectations and wonderful experiences. I know that I can't forever shield myself from negativity, but I an change how I deal with those situations and experiences.
Stay posted !
Sorry to vent, but I had to let it go.....!
